Perhaps like this then? Set up a camera in the bedroom, lock hubby out and make him watch the tv as we undress each other, feel each other, you get your sweet tits sucked and twisted, your pussy fingered and licked until you come, then we fuck. Then you clean up my cock, then I take you in...
Now here's the dilemma. Do I start by licking and fingering your sweet pussy, then work my way up to your tits before sliding my cock into you and fucking you, or start by sucking and massaging your tits, then work my way down to your pussy where I lick and finger you before fucking you.
Decisions Decisions. There is no best, I can't decide. When I look at lips, then lips it is, when I look at tits, then tits it is. No way to pick the best. It's a tie that I would love to be able to physically exam.