Not "stuck" on anything, just telling the dude how it is from my experience. People have different want's and need's, and money tends to fix both of those.
It is really easy to do that, it's just women don't stick around unless you have something to offer, money, being funny, being attractive, etc. So unless you talk to someone you have a common interest with, either be attractive or have money. Money being the easier to obtain if you didn't win...